Sex Knowledge

Importance of Sex Knowledge

Male and female are incomplete without each other. Their lives become really meaningful only when they reach the stage of complete mental and physical harmony. Nature has created man and woman for each other and sex has got a vital role to bring them as close as possible. If the sexual life of married couple is fully satisfactory and blissful, only then they can remain mentally and physically healthy, otherwise a gap of unhappiness and frustration starts developing between them which is a curse of modern society. Ignorance of sexual behavior can be a cause for this situation. These days it is our ambition to give best possible education to our children so that they achieve the highest goal in their lives. We tell them about every part of their bodies except the sexual organs. Why so? Simply because the society considers it bad? Perhaps they are not aware of the fact that children have natural curiosity about sex. When their queries regarding sex are not answered properly by parents, they revert to their equally ignorant friends, who try to satisfy their curiosity by wrong notions and distorted facts in the tender brains of the children. Therefore it is a moral duty of the parents to impart all necessary knowledge and information to their growing children about sex and its importance in life. This only can save them from wrong notions and disastrous results.

Aging and Sex

Man and Aging

With age, achieving a full, stiff erection need more time and also manual help by oneself or from a partner. Even the time to have a second erection after the first one fades also increases much. For example A 17 Year old man can ejaculate and get repeat erection even 10 times in 24 hours, while a 35-40 year old man get erection only once in 24 hours or even more. With age, the frequency of getting morning erections also reduce. The expulsive pressure and the quantity of semen which comes out during ejaculation also decreases with age. With age a man's serum testosterone levels also goes down resulting in diminished sexual desire.

Woman and Aging              

Normally, the first noticeable change occur in a woman's sexual response with age is decrease vaginal lubrication. As a woman get older, the rate of production and the volume of these lubricating fluids declines to a great amount resulting in dryness of the vagina. With age, the walls of the vagina also looses their elasticity. Aging woman gets less intense and delayed or difficult orgasms. With age, after menopause, the production of estrogen hormone goes down resulting in decrease vaginal lubrication and atrophy of the vagina. Chronic illness, aging changes and poor health plays a significant role for sexual decline with age. If a man or woman is physically fit and sexually active, can enjoy and perform the sex till the end of their last breath.

Alcohol and Sex

As Shakespeare has mentioned in Macbeth, about the effect of alcohol on sex, it provokes, and unprovoked, it provokes the desire, but it takes away the performance. It means alcohol increase the desire but it takes away the erection.

Occasionally, a low level of alcohol slightly increases the sexual arousal. If a man's blood alcohol concentration exceeds more than 0.05, the sexual arousal begins to come down. (If a man consume three pags of alcohol within 1 to 2 hours, his blood alcohol concentration level reaches to approx. 0.05).

With a blood alcohol concentration of 0.06, a man requires longer period for ejaculation while, at 0.09 level many men are unable to ejaculate.

In women with blood alcohol concentration level of 0.04 level, the sexual arousal goes down and also reduces the intensity of orgasm. So normally, anything beyond the third drink is a sexual downer. In men with more alcohol, sexual response goes down and the subjective sense of arousal also declines. Long - term effects of chronic, heavy drinking effect of alcohol on sex:

  • It destroys the cells in the testes (which manufacture testosterone) resulting in low libido.

  • Alcohol also decrease one's ability to have a full, firm erection.

  • Delays or absent ejaculation and orgasm.

  • Reduce the production of normal mature sperms.

  • Reduce the male sex harmone (Testosterone) level, resulting an increase in the female sex harmone (Estrogens). Due to which man looses body hair, swelling in breasts (Gynecomastia) and finally shrinkage of the penis and testicles.

  • Chronic alcoholic women have reduced desire for sex, reduced sexual arousal and delayed or absent orgasm. It also disturb - menstrual cycles, ovarian function, decline fertility and shrunken breasts.

Sex For The First Timer

Having Sex For The First Time For Both Partners:

Should One Eat or Drink Anything Before Sex?

Avoid eating a heavy meal, since that'll just make sleepy. Eat light, don't drink too much alcohol, if any at all. It may help you shed inhibitions, but it may also make his erection much more difficult to achieve.

For Her

What Do I Do First?

You can't expect him to know what makes you feel good. You'll have to tell him or show him, and that may mean taking some of the initiative, taking his hands and placing them where they make you feel good. Go slow. If it's his first time, he may well be totally nervous about what you're about to do, and his penis may not respond at first. Patience, gentleness and understanding are required to bring it back to life, and that may be hard for you to achieve.

Will It Hurt?

You have probably heard horror stories about how much losing your virginity hurts. For a few women, it does, but with the right touch and the right partner, you should be able to take his penis into your body without pain. Have him take his time, use a lubricant, and press his fingers into you, opening you up slowly. Tell him when it feels good and when it hurts.

What Position Should I Use?

Many women prefer to have sex the first time being on top, where they can control the first entry. Others want to be on the bottom and give their lovers that control. Choose what's best for you. Just remember to tell him to go slow, take your time.

For Him

What if I Can't Get it Up?

It may sound funny, but your penis, which has worked great for years, may suddenly go on strike at your first chance at real sex. That's natural-- you're nervous. Take a deep breath. Do something else for a while with your hands, your lips and your tongue with her. Try to forget about your anxiety, and your penis will respond. It's only a temporary thing.

Should I Tell Her if I'm A Virgin?

Many men think that because they're men, they should be in charge of the sex, regardless of who has the more experience. If you're a virgin and she's not, tell her, and let her lead if she wishes. This is as much a learning experience as a loving one. Don't be afraid to confess the truth.

Will We Come At The Same Time?

Don't worry about making orgasm simultaneous, either. Some women do not orgasm during intercourse, and even if your girlfriend is capable of climax, the odds are very much against you coming at the same time. Enjoy yourself, and rely on her to tell you the truth when she's enjoying herself.

What If I Orgasm Too Soon?

If you actually climax much too soon before you wanted to, take your time, take a nap, and try again. The second time you should be much more relaxed and ready to take your time-- so will your penis.

Am I Big Enough? Too Big? The Right Shape?

Another common concern is size. The average penis is slightly more than four inches in length when erect, and that's more than enough to hit every major nerve center in the vagina. The vagina is capable of stretching to take a large penis, or shape itself to pleasure a small one. Size has very little to do with your ability as a lover.

Another common issue is shape. Some men become concerned because their penis bends downwards, or to the left, and assume that because they never see men like them in erotic movies that they're not normal. Others worry that a downward bend will make sex difficult or painful because the vagina isn't shaped with that bend in mind.

Keep in mind that sex can be performed in any number of positions. The penis and vagina can be matched in many different ways, and each new position can bring new pleasures to you and your partner. Some people believe that a downward-bending penis is much easier to perform oral sex upon.

Sperm Allergia

Women, despite repeated inoculation, rarely develop an immune or allergic response to semen. Still, sperm allergies may be more common that we once thought. We are only beginning to understand how this might happen.

There have been case reports of complaints ranging from itching and swelling during or after intercourse to anaphylactic symptoms comprising total body itching and shortness of breath in women who were found to be allergic to human semen.

A simple way to see if an allergy might be the problem is to self-test for semen sensitivity by using a condom to see if symptoms abate.

Other potential causes of the symptoms could be an infection which makes the tissue very sensitive. Is he is the only one you've experienced this with? Or is it possible that he is ingesting something that is an irritant to you?

If you still suspect an allergy, there is test available to detect such antibodies. A simple one would be to collect a serum IGG and IGM to detect the body's immune response to the antigen. A lab could detect semen albumin-specific IgE and an allergy shot would show a positive reaction to an injection with seminal plasma. Women can be given a course of hyposensitization treatment, after which the problems sometimes disappear.

Frequently Asked Questions

What's the average size of the penis?   

Is penis size important for female gratification?

Penis size is not important at all for female gratification.

Can penis size be increased?

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My penis bends down (or left, or right). Is there something wrong with it?

Almost all penises bend in some direction or other when erect. Unless the bend is severe or causes pain, there is nothing wrong or abnormal. It should not interfere with sexual intercourse.

In rare cases a condition called Peyrone's Syndrome can arise from childhood diseases. This condition is caused by scarring on one of the two corpora cavernosa within the penis, stunting its effectiveness during erection and causing the penis to bend almost 90 degrees in that direction. If you feel this may be the case, consult us.

What is circumcision and why is it done?

Male circumcision is the surgical removal of the foreskin from the penis. Common reasons for circumcision include: hygienic, medical or religious reason.

What are blue balls?

Blue Balls is a real condition! The correct term for blue balls is epididymitis, which is an inflammation of the epididymis. In simple terms blue balls occurs when the epididymis get blocked up with sperm that have left the testis but not the penis. The vas deferns are the conduit for the sperm from the testis to the urethra. When they get blocked you get pain. Why blue balls and not swollen balls, well maybe the connotation is that you balls have the blues, or maybe its because with all that swelling some of the blood flow is restricted enough to cause some blueing of the area because of pooling blood.

What is the G-Spot?

The Grafenberg spot, or G-spot, is an area located within the anterior (or front) wall of the vagina, about one centimetre from the surface and one-third to one-half way in from the vaginal opening It is reported to consist of a system of glands (Skene's glands) and ducts that surround the urethra (Heath, 1984). Some authors write that you must press deeply into the tissue with two fingers to reach it with any effectiveness.

The significance of the G-spot is that some women (about half) report that it is a highly sensitive area that under the right conditions can be very pleasurable if stimulated. For some women, it can be a primary source of stimulation leading to orgasm during intercourse. Other women report no particular stimulation, and some say that it feels as if they need to urinate.