Importance of Sex Knowledge
Male and female are
incomplete without each other. Their lives become really
meaningful only when they reach the stage of complete mental
and physical harmony. Nature has created man and woman for
each other and sex has got a vital role to bring them as
close as possible. If the sexual life of married couple is
fully satisfactory and blissful, only then they can remain
mentally and physically healthy, otherwise a gap of
unhappiness and frustration starts developing between them
which is a curse of modern society. Ignorance of sexual
behavior can be a cause for this situation. These days it
is our ambition to give best possible education to our
children so that they achieve the highest goal in their
lives. We tell them about every part of their bodies except
the sexual organs. Why so? Simply because the society
considers it bad? Perhaps they are not aware of the fact
that children have natural curiosity about sex. When their
queries regarding sex are not answered properly by parents,
they revert to their equally ignorant friends, who try to
satisfy their curiosity by wrong notions and distorted facts
in the tender brains of the children. Therefore it is a
moral duty of the parents to impart all necessary knowledge
and information to their growing children about sex and its
importance in life. This only can save them from wrong
notions and disastrous results.
With age, achieving a
full, stiff erection need more time and also manual help by
oneself or from a partner. Even the time to have a second
erection after the first one fades also increases much. For
example A 17 Year old man can ejaculate and get repeat
erection even 10 times in 24 hours, while a 35-40 year old
man get erection only once in 24 hours or even more. With
age, the frequency of getting morning erections also reduce.
The expulsive pressure and the quantity of semen which comes
out during ejaculation also decreases with age. With age a
man's serum testosterone levels also goes down resulting in
diminished sexual desire.
Woman and Aging
the first noticeable change occur in a woman's sexual
response with age is decrease vaginal lubrication. As a
woman get older, the rate of production and the volume of
these lubricating fluids declines to a great amount
resulting in dryness of the vagina. With age, the walls of
the vagina also looses their elasticity. Aging woman gets
less intense and delayed or difficult orgasms. With age,
after menopause, the production of estrogen hormone goes
down resulting in decrease vaginal lubrication and atrophy
of the vagina. Chronic illness, aging changes and poor
health plays a significant role for sexual decline with age.
If a man or woman is physically fit and sexually active, can
enjoy and perform the sex till the end of their last breath.
As Shakespeare has
mentioned in Macbeth, about the effect of alcohol on sex, it provokes, and
unprovoked, it provokes the desire, but
it takes away the performance. It means alcohol increase the
desire but it takes away the erection.
Occasionally, a low level
of alcohol slightly increases the sexual arousal. If a man's
blood alcohol concentration exceeds more than 0.05, the
sexual arousal begins to come down. (If a man consume three
pags of alcohol within 1 to 2 hours, his blood alcohol
concentration level reaches to approx. 0.05).
With a blood alcohol
concentration of 0.06, a man requires longer period for
ejaculation while, at 0.09 level many men are unable to
In women with blood
alcohol concentration level of 0.04 level, the sexual
arousal goes down and also reduces the intensity of orgasm.
So normally, anything beyond the third drink is a sexual
downer. In men with more alcohol, sexual response goes down
and the subjective sense of arousal also declines. Long -
term effects of chronic, heavy drinking effect of alcohol on
It destroys the cells
in the testes (which manufacture testosterone) resulting
in low libido.
Alcohol also decrease
one's ability to have a full, firm erection.
Delays or absent
ejaculation and orgasm.
Reduce the production
of normal mature sperms.
Reduce the male sex
harmone (Testosterone) level, resulting an increase in the
female sex harmone (Estrogens). Due to which man looses
body hair, swelling in breasts (Gynecomastia) and finally
shrinkage of the penis and testicles.
Chronic alcoholic women
have reduced desire for sex, reduced sexual arousal and
delayed or absent orgasm. It also disturb - menstrual
cycles, ovarian function, decline fertility and shrunken
For The First Timer
Sex For The First Time For Both Partners:
One Eat or Drink Anything Before Sex?
Avoid eating a heavy
meal, since that'll just make sleepy. Eat light, don't drink
too much alcohol, if any at all. It may help you shed
inhibitions, but it may also make his erection much more
difficult to achieve.
What Do I
You can't expect him to
know what makes you feel good. You'll have to tell him or
show him, and that may mean taking some of the initiative,
taking his hands and placing them where they make you feel
good. Go slow. If it's his first time, he may well be
totally nervous about what you're about to do, and his penis
may not respond at first. Patience, gentleness and
understanding are required to bring it back to life, and
that may be hard for you to achieve.
You have probably heard
horror stories about how much losing your virginity hurts.
For a few women, it does, but with the right touch and the
right partner, you should be able to take his penis into
your body without pain. Have him take his time, use a
lubricant, and press his fingers into you, opening you up
slowly. Tell him when it feels good and when it hurts.
Should I Use?
Many women prefer to have
sex the first time being on top, where they can control the
first entry. Others want to be on the bottom and give their
lovers that control. Choose what's best for you. Just
remember to tell him to go slow, take your time.
What if I
Can't Get it Up?
It may sound funny, but
your penis, which has worked great for years, may suddenly
go on strike at your first chance at real sex. That's
natural-- you're nervous. Take a deep breath. Do something
else for a while with your hands, your lips and your tongue
with her. Try to forget about your anxiety, and your penis
will respond. It's only a temporary thing.
Tell Her if I'm A Virgin?
Many men think that
because they're men, they should be in charge of the sex,
regardless of who has the more experience. If you're a
virgin and she's not, tell her, and let her lead if she
wishes. This is as much a learning experience as a loving
one. Don't be afraid to confess the truth.
Will We Come At The Same Time?
Don't worry about making
orgasm simultaneous, either. Some women do not orgasm during
intercourse, and even if your girlfriend is capable of
climax, the odds are very much against you coming at the
same time. Enjoy yourself, and rely on her to tell you the
truth when she's enjoying herself.
What If I
Orgasm Too Soon?
If you actually climax
much too soon before you wanted to, take your time, take a
nap, and try again. The second time you should be much more
relaxed and ready to take your time-- so will your penis.
Am I Big Enough? Too Big? The Right Shape?
Another common concern is
size. The average penis is slightly more than four inches in
length when erect, and that's more than enough to hit every
major nerve center in the vagina. The vagina is capable of
stretching to take a large penis, or shape itself to
pleasure a small one. Size has very little to do with your
ability as a lover.
Another common issue is
shape. Some men become concerned because their penis bends
downwards, or to the left, and assume that because they
never see men like them in erotic movies that they're not
normal. Others worry that a downward bend will make sex
difficult or painful because the vagina isn't shaped with
that bend in mind.
Keep in mind that sex can
be performed in any number of positions. The penis and
vagina can be matched in many different ways, and each new
position can bring new pleasures to you and your partner.
Some people believe that a downward-bending penis is much
easier to perform oral sex upon.
Women, despite repeated
inoculation, rarely develop an immune or allergic response
to semen. Still, sperm allergies may be more common that we
once thought. We are only beginning to understand how this
There have been case
reports of complaints ranging from itching and swelling
during or after intercourse to anaphylactic symptoms
comprising total body itching and shortness of breath in
women who were found to be allergic to human semen.
A simple way to see if an
allergy might be the problem is to self-test for semen
sensitivity by using a condom to see if symptoms abate.
Other potential causes of
the symptoms could be an infection which makes the tissue
very sensitive. Is he is the only one you've experienced
this with? Or is it possible that he is ingesting something
that is an irritant to you?
If you still suspect an
allergy, there is test available to detect such antibodies.
A simple one would be to collect a serum IGG and IGM to
detect the body's immune response to the antigen. A lab
could detect semen albumin-specific IgE and an allergy shot
would show a positive reaction to an injection with seminal
plasma. Women can be given a course of hyposensitization
treatment, after which the problems sometimes disappear.
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Is penis size important for female
Penis size is not
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My penis bends down (or left, or right). Is
there something wrong with it?
Almost all penises bend
in some direction or other when erect. Unless the bend is
severe or causes pain, there is nothing wrong or abnormal.
It should not interfere with sexual intercourse.
In rare cases a condition
called Peyrone's Syndrome can arise from childhood diseases.
This condition is caused by scarring on one of the two
corpora cavernosa within the penis, stunting its
effectiveness during erection and causing the penis to bend
almost 90 degrees in that direction. If you feel this may be
the case, consult us.
What is circumcision and why is it done?
Male circumcision is the
surgical removal of the foreskin from the penis. Common
reasons for circumcision include: hygienic, medical or
What are blue balls?
Blue Balls is a real
condition! The correct term for blue balls is epididymitis,
which is an inflammation of the epididymis. In simple terms
blue balls occurs when the epididymis get blocked up with
sperm that have left the testis but not the penis. The vas
deferns are the conduit for the sperm from the testis to the
urethra. When they get blocked you get pain. Why blue balls
and not swollen balls, well maybe the connotation is that
you balls have the blues, or maybe its because with all that
swelling some of the blood flow is restricted enough to
cause some blueing of the area because of pooling blood.
What is the G-Spot?
The Grafenberg spot, or
G-spot, is an area located within the anterior (or front)
wall of the vagina, about one centimetre from the surface
and one-third to one-half way in from the vaginal opening It
is reported to consist of a system of glands (Skene's
glands) and ducts that surround the urethra (Heath, 1984).
Some authors write that you must press deeply into the
tissue with two fingers to reach it with any effectiveness.
The significance of the
G-spot is that some women (about half) report that it is a
highly sensitive area that under the right conditions can be
very pleasurable if stimulated. For some women, it can be a
primary source of stimulation leading to orgasm during
intercourse. Other women report no particular stimulation,
and some say that it feels as if they need to urinate.